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How I committed a consent violation
While at Winter Fire 2020 I commited a consent violation, I am not writing this as an excuse, a defense, but as a recounting of the event and what I… Read more »
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Some new toys that I found on Amazon
So I recently managed to get a couple of new electric toys that are fun pervertables. These are variants on some things I have used and found before and maybe… Read more »
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Why this site and this blog?
Initially I started this blog so that I had a place to post about violet wands, I still do work with the International Violet Wand Guild but there are limitations… Read more »
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What Sets Us Apart From Others?
As a team we bring the complete package to our presentations, Jersey Jenny a former teacher brings a huge class room presence as well as strong focus on the soft… Read more »
Violet Wand – Q&A Palooza
You like violet wands? Have questions about them? This discussion formatted class gives you the opportunity to ask all of those nagging questions about violet wands, everything from science to… Read more »
Recognizing Incompatibility Does Not Need to Carry Blame or Judgment
Today’s thought nugget: Acknowledgement of incompatibility is not a rejection even though it almost always FEELS that way. Being told the way you are or the way you think does… Read more »
Class Handout Rough Body Play: A slap is a tickle.
YES Below the collar bone (above the breasts) Upper arms Forearms (potentially uncomfortable to striker) Butt Inner and outer thighs (note that inner thighs bruise much more easily than outer)… Read more »
Seductive and Satisfying; Bedroom play with Violet Wands
This class focuses on how you can integrate violet wand into your intimate play. How you use a violet wand to increase the heat in your sexual scenes and to… Read more »
Building Your Own Personal Toolkits for Scenes, Events & Relationships (Can be a Group Discussion or a traditional lecture with Q/A style)
This class will be separated into two parts encompassing the things you will need for building toolkits for short and long term aftercare . The first toolkit is for scenes,… Read more »
Adding Service to Your Dynamic (Group Discussion)
You often hear about service submissives, but this doesn’t have to be the only way to be in a service relationship. Service can be added to any dynamic and performed… Read more »
Kinking Separately From Your Partner (Group Discussion)
This guided discussion session is initially being presented at Naughty Noel based upon a request from Lady Plume the wonderful education coordinator for Studio58. It’s such a wonderful idea that… Read more »
Violet Wand 203 – Applied Sensation play (Interactive Experience)
This interactive experience is for experienced violet wands players. Attendees are expected to own their own wand and bring it with them for this event. Although this experience works best… Read more »