Initially I started this blog so that I had a place to post about violet wands, I still do work with the International Violet Wand Guild but there are limitations on what I could do there.  Over time things evolved and as I started doing more presenting and educating,...

As a team we bring the complete package to our presentations, Jersey Jenny a former teacher brings a huge class room presence as well as strong focus on the soft skills including negotiations when combined with Papa Bear Tony’s experience and technical knowledge we are able to bring a...

This information was supplied by Violet Wanda: Your knob spindle was just jammed all the way up to the ‘high’ setting and stopped.  Then when you turned it down, the knob turned to the left but the spindle didn’t, and the knob came loose from the spindle.  This is actually how...

On these articles I am always conflicted am I writing it like a journal or a review, how much of my opinion and thoughts do I want to interject into these particular writings. This one will end up going into a different direction. Jenny and I both agreed we...

This year at DOWF2020 with some help I was able to setup a fun interactive adventure for the Carnival Spectacular. Dimensions of parts: Picture of parts: Link for Mylar Curtain I am extremely behind on updating things but I have been a slug about posting this one and it...

Disclaimer: These are not actually toys but electrical tools, and use of these in any sort of BDSM play is at your own risk, and obviously the risk of the person you are using them on. I am merely providing information and reviews based upon my personal experience but...

You like violet wands? Have questions about them? This discussion formatted class gives you the opportunity to ask all of those nagging questions about violet wands, everything from science to hardware to whatever you want to know. This will be a very free form experience with guided experiments to...

While at Winter Fire 2020 I commited a consent violation, I am not writing this as an excuse, a defense, but as a recounting of the event and what I have learned. I do this in hope that my lesson might help others. I was doing violet wand demonstrations...

Today’s thought nugget: Acknowledgement of incompatibility is not a rejection even though it almost always FEELS that way. Being told the way you are or the way you think does not line up with someone else can feel like your way is WRONG. It need not be that. In...

YES Below the collar bone (above the breasts) Upper arms Forearms (potentially uncomfortable to striker) Butt Inner and outer thighs (note that inner thighs bruise much more easily than outer) Shoulder blades (as long as they’re flattened) MAYBE Breasts (repeated punching can break down breast tissue) IT band Hip/butt...

This class focuses on how you can integrate violet wand into your intimate play.  How you use a violet wand to increase the heat in your sexual scenes and to enhance the wonderful sensations that partners can already share.  This is a strongly sexual class and will work best...

This class will be separated into two parts encompassing the things you will need for building toolkits for short and long term aftercare . The first toolkit is for scenes, a go to bag/backpack if you will, to take care of your immediate needs after you play. It is...