Author: PB T

Cheyenne Frontier Days Rodeo

From time to time I try to go on a destination vacation with Katie, and every couple of years we try to make sure to do something with my parents as well.  This year it was Cheyenne Frontier Days “The Granddaddy of them all!”  The world’s largest outdoor rodeo,...

Wax Play Notes

I love science and kink so part of getting ready to do something like wax play involved me learning as much as I possibly could about candles and wax.  The below information refers to the melting point for different waxes. Note that melting points reflect the temperature needed to...

So I found a deal at… -or- Who can fix my antique violet wand.

First things first I need to acknowledge the great luck I have had from a conversation with Frank at the munch Monday night, our conversation brought out some really great things that got me thinking about how useful writing up these could be in general.   Since a significant part...

Picking a wand: Solid State ~vs~ Mechanical

Last night at a munch I got to see a good friend who was visiting from out of town and he wanted to talk about what sort of wand would I recommend, we discussed things what were the advantages and disadvantages; why you might want to pick one type...

Violet Wand Advanced Playstyles

Disclaimer: This is a work in progress Although I am well versed in violet wands and the various play-styles, I do not know everything there is to know by a long shot.  All that said some of the advanced wand play-styles are stuff that I haven’t yet done or...

Wax Melting Points

Natural Soy Wax Product Use Description Form Max Fragrance Melt Point Pour Temp Rec. Wick Series Golden Brands 464 Soy Wax Containers, Tealights Our best selling wax. Contains a soy-based additive to reduce frosting and improve jar adhesion and scent throw. Very user-friendly for first-time candle-makers! Flake 2oz./lb. or...

Review Dr VonHertz Violet Wand Roll Guard

Dr VonHertz This is a double review because included with my order I also got a small pot of probe glass polish.  A friend of mine sent me the link to Dr VonHertz etsy store specifically for this roll guard.  He knows me so well because I tend to...

Electrical Devices and Terms Glossary

Ammeter an instrument for measuring electric current in amperes. Ampere Is a unit of electric current; ampere is often shortened to “amp”. It is the basic unit of electric current in the International System of Units and was named after André-Marie Ampère, French mathematician and physicist, considered the father of...

SSC vs RACK

If you know me you are probably aware how important I feel about the need for negotiations and informed consent.  These are important factors in ethical kink, they are important for both the top and the bottom.  For tops it’s important because if you aren’t aware of sure of...

Double Teaming with Violet Wands

I have been looking for something new to write about, so I posted a question on FetLife asking for thoughts and suggestions… From Mrtiedup “…Can you co-top or use two wands at the same time on one bottom…” Absolutely you can but like so much in life there are...