Private Scene Safety: How to protect yourself

This is a discussion presentation for any and all who are interested in private play and want to help ensure their safety.  This presentation is welcoming to any and all genders, kink dynamics, and sexualities.  Private play requires some significantly different skills to supplement regular play safety practices and...

Rough Body Play: A slap is a tickle.

This presentation is for people who love to get up close and personal with their partners.  It occasionally defies the standard top/bottom dynamic so common in most kink activities.  This will arm you with the basic do’s and don’ts, as well as some ideas on new and exciting fun...

Violet Wand 202 – Sexy Times with violet wands

This class is for experienced tops and bottoms and will get into the down and dirty of fucking with Violet Wands.  Like all of our classes there will be a review of safety practices especially focusing on the risks that surround internal violet wand usage for both to bottom...

Violet Wand 201 – Teasing and warm-ups with violet wands

This intermediate session is of tops and bottoms who have practical experience with violet wands. In this class we will review safety in electric play, ensuring mechanical safety of your wand, and then the good stuff.  Stepping up violet wand play leads to some amazingly hot scenes.  Properly used...

Violet Wand 102 –   Solid State & Pervertibles

This class is a twist on the basic skills class.  This class is focused on pervertables, solid state wands and how to get started without breaking the bank.   This class will cover the basics of using a violet wand, but instead of showing glass probes and covering direct techniques...

Violet Wand 101 – Basic Play discussion

This class is intended for novice violet wand players and anyone who is curious about learning more about violet wands.   In this class we will cover how to safely handle and use a violet wand, as well as show safety devices to reduce the risk to everyone involved, and...

Presenters Bio’s

     I am Papa-Bear-Tony. I am a slightly sadistic service top with a significant caffeine addiction. I have had a lifelong fascination with electricity and kink and when I discovered violet wands it was love at first sight.  I have been a member of the International Violet Wand...

Why this site and this blog?

Initially I started this blog so that I had a place to post about violet wands, I still do work with the International Violet Wand Guild but there are limitations on what I could do there.  Over time things evolved and as I started doing more presenting and educating,...

What Sets Us Apart From Others?

As a team we bring the complete package to our presentations, Jersey Jenny a former teacher brings a huge class room presence as well as strong focus on the soft skills including negotiations when combined with Papa Bear Tony’s experience and technical knowledge we are able to bring a...

Double Teaming with Violet Wands

I have been looking for something new to write about, so I posted a question on FetLife asking for thoughts and suggestions… From Mrtiedup “…Can you co-top or use two wands at the same time on one bottom…” Absolutely you can but like so much in life there are...