Violet Wand 101 – Basic Play discussion

This class is intended for novice violet wand players and anyone who is curious about learning more about violet wands.   In this class we will cover how to safely handle and use a violet wand, as well as show safety devices to reduce the risk to everyone involved, and...

Presenters Bio’s

     I am Papa-Bear-Tony. I am a slightly sadistic service top with a significant caffeine addiction. I have had a lifelong fascination with electricity and kink and when I discovered violet wands it was love at first sight.  I have been a member of the International Violet Wand...

Why this site and this blog?

Initially I started this blog so that I had a place to post about violet wands, I still do work with the International Violet Wand Guild but there are limitations on what I could do there.  Over time things evolved and as I started doing more presenting and educating,...

What Sets Us Apart From Others?

As a team we bring the complete package to our presentations, Jersey Jenny a former teacher brings a huge class room presence as well as strong focus on the soft skills including negotiations when combined with Papa Bear Tony’s experience and technical knowledge we are able to bring a...

Double Teaming with Violet Wands

I have been looking for something new to write about, so I posted a question on FetLife asking for thoughts and suggestions… From Mrtiedup “…Can you co-top or use two wands at the same time on one bottom…” Absolutely you can but like so much in life there are...

Pervertables: Cheap & Fun Toys

Pervertables? What the hell you are making that up. No dear reader this is a real word, maybe not English Oxford Dictionary real, but in the kink scene it is a work we use a lot. Pervertables, is the word we use to describe and common or every day...

FetLife – Give me freaks yearning to do fucked up things!

Today I am going to discuss FetLife. Most of you have probably heard of it, and are already using it the help you get your freak on. If you haven’t I highly recommend the site  as a useful tool to help find local kinksters, events, and learn about what is out...

The odds and ends that I have in wand kit

Obviously I have generators, glass probes, metal probes, and conductive toys for reverse and indirect then there is the weird stuff.  The stuff that I need to carry just in case, the stuff that comes out in case of emergency or when unexpected challenges pop-up.  These are the odd’s and...

Parts of the wand

​ ​ This image shows you the basic outside parts of your mechanical Violet Wand. The housing part of the wand if two separate parts that are twisted and locked together, with the adjustment knob helping to ensure the case doesn’t become loose. It is a best practice to hold...

Review D’arsonval High Frequency Beauty Aid

Okay kids class is in session! Today in addition to a product review I am going to teach a little history. These high-frequency, high voltage devices get their name from Jacques-Arsène d’Arsonval, a french physicist and inventor who is famous in the field of electrophysiology and explored using electricity...